Well guys. I know I haven't been on here that much recently. I've been having to deal with a lot of shit on my plate. A lot of you don't know that back in November on Thanksgiving weekend my life took a turn when my significant other of 5.5 years decided to leave me and with her went the dog. It was shortly after moving up here to go to Michigan tech. It was devastating, and to this day still is. Something about this girl has kept me holding on, and it's not healthy for me. I have no idea why in my head she's so special, but there's pretty much nothing that I can do at this point.
In January, my grandfather passed away. He was the only Biological grandparent I knew. This also was a blow. Kicking me when I'm down, living up here in isolation where I have no real friends, in this new house all alone. These past 5 months have been, by far, the worst I have ever endured.
So, I have not been happy. I have not had a good time. This is where my grey ponderingbrainmatterjuices have been flowing. I have 4 more weeks of this semester, and I'm out of this place. I have to move on from Aly, and live a life I want to lead. So, I'm taking this summer to really determine where I want to go in life. If I want to go out and get a job, Come back up here and finish my school. Etc. All I know is I'm single, not tied down. And every moment I spend up here right now is driving me insane. There are so many people to meet (Especially women), and I plan on doing EXACTLY that. (Alone, or with new found friends).
Early May, I will be heading out to Fort Collins CO. Helping my best friend and her husband move out there. After that, I'm pretty well open. I would absolutely LOVE to meet friends on here during my travels. So if you'd like to meet the legendary Jay, introduce me to more friends (especially beezies), Maybe let me crash on your couch. It would be such an awesome thing to do and I would be extremely grateful for everyone helping to make a hell of a trip for me.
I'm getting the car ready for this while finishing off my semester. It's going to look like garbage, but that's okay as it drives A-OK. (And has A/C)
CURRENT stops being made in no order:
Fargo ND.
Fort Collins CO
El Paso Tx
Hermitage TN
acolella76 - Atlanta, GA
89AlpineM3 - Tuscon, AZ
SchizophrenicMC - Dallas TX
Keith - Birmingham, AL
Spike68 - Birmingham AL
Sideways_S12 - Las Vegas NV
Agent - Hermitage (Already going to be there. Bonus!)
Danny - Solano County, CA
Lambo - FoCo (probably)
Albuquerque30 - SF area
And coming to a stop for an extended stay at my brothers in Philly, PA.
This route is NOT set in stone. I'm MORE than willing to travel much further out, even out to Cali if there's enough places to stay at and people to see. But the absolutes are the Fargo, and Fort Collins. Throw up your location if you think you're in. I'll try to work things out and get an itinerary set up.
Let's make this an adventure C-S12. I know you and R3v won't let me down. Below is a possible map. Let's fill in the blanks!
https://maps.google.com/maps?saddr=calumet+mi&daddr=Fargo+ND+to:Fort+Collins,+Co+to:San+Francisco,+CA+to:Los+Angeles,+CA+to:Tuscon+AZ+to:El+Paso+TX+to:Atlanta,+GA+to:Hermitage,+TN+to:razz:ottstown,+pa&hl=en&ll=40.044438,-93.603516&spn=28.395623,67.631836&sll=33.988918,-109.248047&sspn=7.711953,16.907959&geocode=FQDt0AIdiky6-ikXUJrVg7tQTTF74m8Ug_EF-Q%3BFQJKywId1Ro7-ilFcWeEjcvIUjHKqpEnpTCqgQ%3BFSxIawId-Ym8-SmtMPCQRUpphzGCQKu0KEKxqQ%3BFVJmQAIdKAe0-CkhAGkAbZqFgDH_rXbwZxNQSg%3BFYqYBwIdm77z-CkT2ifcXcfCgDH0CEYlb98v4g%3BFS-q6wEdcWVj-Skr7SwLQWXWhjEVxxZNOC3Dcw%3BFYCZ5AEdbSOn-SlpO_7Fiz_nhjEiAp2r44SR4w%3BFQP4AgIdclf4-imNCZNpXQT1iDELYwuZL97-Zg%3BFUZPKAId4D7W-ilT3rfRtRRkiDF1SI0ZYf0Krw%3BFX4YZgIdoq19-yn1lS3SIIbGiTHFmSXA6Y6vEA&mra=ls&t=m&z=5
Countdown, one month. Road trip.
Shitty, but glad to see your back and doing well (as well as can be expected anyway) Sorry for your loss but remember time heals all wounds. There's a bunch of women in the world so don't just dwell on one if she left you then it wasn't meant to be and the person you are meant to be with is out there in the mean time fuck bitches and get money and when I say fuck bitches I don't mean disregard women I mean it in the literal sense hahaha don't be smart about it you don't want any kids right now lol. Anyway like I said glad your back and if you swing through vegas on your travels let me know we'll go get a beer or something.
Whatever you do, man, you have to stop in Dallas and visit the contingent here. I don't know if I'll have a couch to offer (waiting to see if some things work out), but it seems like a miss to hit El Paso and not hit Dallas on the way east. Besides there's like 4 of us from the club in the area, so almost as many people as Vegas.
Sorry to hear your life's been shitty, but you're an awesome dude and you'll get past this. In the meantime, swing down this way, have a drink, take some pictures.
sideways_s12 on 06:25:46 PM / 02-Apr-13Shitty, but glad to see your back and doing well (as well as can be expected anyway) Sorry for your loss but remember time heals all wounds. There's a bunch of women in the world so don't just dwell on one if she left you then it wasn't meant to be and the person you are meant to be with is out there in the mean time fuck bitches and get money and when I say fuck bitches I don't mean disregard women I mean it in the literal sense hahaha don't be smart about it you don't want any kids right now lol. Anyway like I said glad your back and if you swing through vegas on your travels let me know we'll go get a beer or something.
Well, I could very easily make Vegas a stop. And I'd LOVE to see vegas, I'll add you to the list for now. But I would absolutely need at least a couch to crash on. So if you're down you're in. I'm trying to keep costs down and stay away from hotels. So far we're at 1k just in gas, assuming 25mpg. I have 5k in my account. :D
SchizophrenicMC on 06:32:35 PM / 02-Apr-13Whatever you do, man, you have to stop in Dallas and visit the contingent here. I don't know if I'll have a couch to offer (waiting to see if some things work out), but it seems like a miss to hit El Paso and not hit Dallas on the way east. Besides there's like 4 of us from the club in the area, so almost as many people as Vegas.
Sorry to hear your life's been shitty, but you're an awesome dude and you'll get past this. In the meantime, swing down this way, have a drink, take some pictures.
Thanks man I really appreciate that. Fun fact, I'd love to give you some shit in person instead of just over teh interwebz. Our arguments could be epic! And chances are I'll be going straight through Dallas.
First post edited with list and map!
Bro, it's the American roadtrip! I'll get VVL, Stephen, and S12-200SX in on this. Some Texas CS12 hospitality.
(Of course, by hospitality I mean dicking around)
no wisconsin....i'm sad
SchizophrenicMC on 07:19:53 PM / 02-Apr-13Bro, it's the American roadtrip! I'll get VVL, Stephen, and S12-200SX in on this. Some Texas CS12 hospitality.+1 I owe you a beer, Jay.
(Of course, by hospitality I mean dicking around)
Hope things get better for you man.
SchizophrenicMC on 07:19:53 PM / 02-Apr-13Bro, it's the American roadtrip! I'll get VVL, Stephen, and S12-200SX in on this. Some Texas CS12 hospitality.
(Of course, by hospitality I mean dicking around)
Awesome.
If by dicking around, you mean getting the local police chief to break out his .50 cal and shoot full propane tanks. I experienced that in TN. It's good fun. would do again.
Count me in, All dates at this point are TBD.
june 1st and aug 31st are VegasDrift ProAMs i'll be competing in. If you can make vegas on either of those days do it. really you'll need about a week for vegas considering all the s12 crew here and your other goals for the trip
If you come to SoCal I've got a couch! Don't know many wimmenz, I mean, I do own an S12.
Also, drinking is fun.
Iggy, I doubt Vegas will be on the first, but we'll see. Get more people chiming in and what not.
Also, guys. Share this with your friends and family. It doesn't need to be people on here, or on R3v. This adventure is to meet people from all walks of life, while blazing my own path. Something I'll remember for the rest of my life.
Eternalswap. Where be you, I need more people in cali to make the trip out that way a little easier. I can't be going more than 2 days without a shower of some sort :P. So far all I have is a guy in SF area.
I might even make it some kind of Youtube show. Who knows!
If you make it up to the great Pacific NW, beer scotch & bbq are waiting. Probably even have a spare bed since oldest son is at school - of course will have to clear that with the boss 1st! Lots of C12 folks up here would be glad to see you!
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Jay on 09:56:29 PM / 02-Apr-13Awesome.
If by dicking around, you mean getting the local police chief to break out his .50 cal and shoot full propane tanks. I experienced that in TN. It's good fun. would do again.
Count me in, All dates at this point are TBD.
Always a propane joke, with these people who can't tell the difference between Arlington and Arlen. I tell you what.
In other ideas, do film the trip. It'll be an awesome collection of key awesomeness from CS12 and R3Vlimited, among others. For Dallas, there's a lot to do and many to meet. CS12 folk will be there and so will many mexicans. (Some of whom are CS12 folk) Also you should definitely stop by San Diego. Like half the site lives there. (Yes, I am calling Gus that fat)
If you swing anywhere through the Midwest I'd love to hang with you man. IV had a thought of doing the same thing, just it a bunch of states and visit mad cs12 guys.
if you can let me know a definitive date then I'm sure you can crash on my couch just gotta make sure the wifey is ok with it and that I have the days off so your not bored at my place doing nuthing or wandering vegas by yourself. but let me know for sure shoot me a pm or something...
Hey jay.......I'm 2 hours west of Atlanta in Birmingham, AL.....looking at the map link you posted, you'll be passing right through here on I-20. Hit me up
EternalSwap on 10:11:32 PM / 02-Apr-13If you come to SoCal I've got a couch! Don't know many wimmenz, I mean, I do own an S12.i live less than 5 minutes from him, YOU MUST VISIT US!!!
Also, drinking is fun.
SchizophrenicMC on 11:24:24 PM / 02-Apr-13Always a propane joke, with these people who can't tell the difference between Arlington and Arlen. I tell you what.I aint even mad bro
In other ideas, do film the trip. It'll be an awesome collection of key awesomeness from CS12 and R3Vlimited, among others. For Dallas, there's a lot to do and many to meet. CS12 folk will be there and so will many mexicans. (Some of whom are CS12 folk) Also you should definitely stop by San Diego. Like half the site lives there. (Yes, I am calling Gus that fat)
The wifey said its fine and she'll even cook hell we'll bbq or something let me know....
Jay, been down that road myself. We in aviation refer to it as AIDs (Aviation Induced Divorce Syndrome). Mine was eight years, It hurts for a while, and you gotta let it hurt. Don't jump into another relationship for some time so when you do it won't just be "on the rebound". If you skip any grieving over a relationship, then the next will become a repeat. Learn from what happened, it's easy to blame everyone but the dude in the mirror. But as it has been said, there are 7 billion peeps out there, half of them wimmenz. There will be someone right for you after you rediscover what an awesome person you really are. Keep the faith, have a safe journey.
I extend my condolences for you grandfather... but I really don't know what to say about your SO leaving. I've always been a bit jaded about women, and for what it's worth, if she left the way she did, she didn't deserve you in the first place. I know that's a bit sketchy still, but life moves forward, and the best players of the game of life will always tell you the grass is indeed greener on the other side. And the fruit is also sweeter, too ;)
Honestly man, I've known you over the internet for a number of years now, and if you're not able to make it down south to SoCal, then maybe Alex can come up here and carpool with me up to Vegas. I'd love to meet ya, and Iggy and Jason are both good guys and a lot of fun to hang with. I haven't ever met the rest of the Vegas horde so it would be a good opportunity all around. Even if you can't make that event date, we can still sort it out.
So I'm down. Alex, what do you think?
Awesome well he'll probably be staying aty place so you all can come and we can bbq or something....
Word.
I probably will just rent a car. It's not that I don't want to drive the SRT, it's that if anything happens to the rental, the cheapo insurance lets me walk away from it without paying a dime.
Arro on 01:46:10 PM / 03-Apr-13Word.
I probably will just rent a car. It's not that I don't want to drive the SRT, it's that if anything happens to the rental, the cheapo insurance lets me walk away from it without paying a dime.
Rent-a-Suburban? (You'll need it if you want Gus to fit ;) )
Hahahahha
We'll just lay him across the back seat and let Alex sit on 'em.
Sounds like Socal is going to be a confirmed destination for me. From there to Vegas!
Remember, I just need a place to crash for a day or two. The more places I can have on the journey, the merrier. Otherwise I will be sleeping in my car. I'm not paying $50+ for a place to sleep for a night. That's 300ish miles worth of gas in the old girl.
Romero on 07:47:10 PM / 02-Apr-13no wisconsin....i'm sad
I'm from Wisconsin. I'll hit you up on the way back if I do come back :P
I'm not sure what's more surprising: the fact that we have two Wisconsin members, or the fact that Rome didn't know Jay was from Wisconsin.
SchizophrenicMC on 03:31:50 PM / 03-Apr-13I'm not sure what's more surprising: the fact that we have two Wisconsin members, or the fact that Rome didn't know Jay was from Wisconsin.
Seishuku is in WI too.
Three wisconsin members. Fascinating. That's like half the population of the state. I had no idea S12s were so popular up north.
Jay you can stay here if you need to.
Like i said if.you give me a definite time you cam.def crash here....
Still working the Itinerary out!
Also guys, I shall need addresses and phone numbers to "plan" this out better. Drop them to me in PM's.
I have plan in quotations, because I don't want to plan out too much. Pretty much from destination to destination and that's it.
Pm sent
sideways_s12 on 03:01:27 PM / 04-Apr-13Pm sentThis
Damn Jay sorry to hear that. My winter was pretty shitty too with the biggest highlights being my brother getting carjacked at gunpoint and having to put down my 14 year old cat which I'd had since a kitten. So if it makes you feel any better you weren't the only one that had a really shitty winter haha. Honestly I think it is healthy we have harder times in life as you can't really appreciate the good times if they are always good. Kinda like the rich kids we all despise because they usually don't appreciate how spoiled they are or have a clue what life is like in the real world. Just gotta try and keep your spirits up in the mean time and things will eventually get better. An epic road trip sounds like a good way to spend spring and help get your mind back to a better state.
Redneck on 05:26:16 PM / 04-Apr-13Damn Jay sorry to hear that. My winter was pretty shitty too with the biggest highlights being my brother getting carjacked at gunpoint and having to put down my 14 year old cat which I'd had since a kitten. So if it makes you feel any better you weren't the only one that had a really shitty winter haha. Honestly I think it is healthy we have harder times in life as you can't really appreciate the good times if they are always good. Kinda like the rich kids we all despise because they usually don't appreciate how spoiled they are or have a clue what life is like in the real world. Just gotta try and keep your spirits up in the mean time and things will eventually get better. An epic road trip sounds like a good way to spend spring and help get your mind back to a better state.
Hearing about others misfortunes does not make me feel better. But I will say that sucks, because I'm sure it does.
That said, I agree. It might be just what I need.
UPDATE!
As it turns out, I will not be helping my best friend and her husband move. I will still be in classes when that happens. So from Calumet to Fort Collins CO, Is wide open.
Trip starts May 1st!
That's a helluva note, but as long as the trip's still on, we still say rock on.
Shitty about your life situation man, my condolences to you and your family for your grandfather. I am glad to see that you're still alive and doing better :D
That said, when you pass through TX I'll be down for to meet up along with the other dudes, I'll try to get my friend to some along with my old SE as well since this is a Club S12 sorta thing.
I'm kind of down for road trip, I just can't take too many days off of work. But my town is Spring Valley, CA, about 20-30 minutes from downtown san diego. But downtown sucks anyway.
When you come into the SF area try to make it on one of these days
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fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck! so much seat time!
IggyEGuana on 06:15:39 PM / 06-Apr-13^Bro, not even funny haha. I just did turns 3-5 again last wed, not even kidding about 50 runs and I could have done more lol.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck! so much seat time!
Damn, I seriously need to spend some time there...
Wonderingraven on 08:23:00 PM / 06-Apr-13Damn, I seriously need to spend some time there...Bro! both of you come out for one of the series, the first day is practice from 8am to 5pm and the next day is 8am to 12pm
8 hours to get there, lol. I would need to lock down my 10 mpg first before attempting. But with all that, that would be a fun weekend to do.
Wonderingraven on 10:10:38 PM / 06-Apr-138 hours to get there, lol. I would need to lock down my 10 mpg first before attempting. But with all that, that would be a fun weekend to do.Sorry jay for thread jacking lol,
Bro figure your car out hahaha, before my cams and everything I was getting close to 29mpg on the freeway. I'm down to 20mpg now but still, 10??????
Yeah, dunno why yet... lol it's not throwing any codes per-se unless the ecu is malfunctioning...
Still idles weird, from 800 - 1200. Not like I am hammering it every turn, just running really rich still.
Jay when are you coming to vegas? I take it that we will have an s12 meet at sideways place ?
Yeah I told him he can stay at my place if I know when he's coming just need to know so i can get the days off and we can chill or bbq...
Kewl, let me know I'll bring over stuff to bbq as well.
cool No pork tho we don't eat pork...